When I read about Amish family life, normally it is
represented by three generations living together in harmony, such an idyllic
life. Grandma and Grandpa are ensconced
in the dawdi house, connected to the main house where Daad is the leader of the
family and Mamm is his helpmate, running the kitchen and raising their large
family of children.
Divorce is not an option for the Amish, if you make a bad
match, you figure a way to live with it.
Their culture absolutely means it when they say, “Till death do you part”. I see this as both a positive and
negative. If you go into your marriage
with the idea this is truly forever, there is no way out, you may be quicker to
find a way to compromise and make the marriage work. However on the other hand, I don’t think
anyone should be forced to stay in an abusive situation. Accordingly, the Amish clergy will get
involved with couples having marital problems, therefore giving some protection
to abused spouses.
Do you wonder how well three generations living together
could get along? The delicate
relationship between wife and mother-in-law can be tricky. Patience, respect, privacy, and holding one’s
tongue are all necessary to make the relationship work. Yet, on the other hand, how rich is the
experience of children growing up in close proximity to their grandparents!
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